{"id":3342873,"date":"2019-11-28T12:38:11","date_gmt":"2019-11-28T12:38:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/?p=3342873"},"modified":"2019-12-02T12:56:12","modified_gmt":"2019-12-02T12:56:12","slug":"termeti-dridhjet-qe-na-bashkuan","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/termeti-dridhjet-qe-na-bashkuan\/","title":{"rendered":"T\u00ebrmeti, dridhjet q\u00eb na bashkuan"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Shum\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb humbura la pas t\u00ebrmeti q\u00eb goditi Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb. La pas shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00eb qiell t\u00eb hapur, jan\u00eb duke u lutur dhe duke shpresuar n\u00eb mrekulli. N\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngujuar prej dit\u00ebsh tashm\u00eb n\u00ebn rr\u00ebnojat e nd\u00ebrtesave t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruara, t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjall\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb k\u00ebto momente t\u00eb tragjedis\u00eb p\u00ebr shum\u00eb familje n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, qindra e mij\u00ebra shqiptar\u00eb t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs i ndjejn\u00eb t\u00eb fresk\u00ebta plag\u00ebt e luft\u00ebs q\u00eb dikur p\u00ebrjetuan. Njer\u00ebz t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb, njer\u00ebz t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kan\u00eb humbur m\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit e tyre, q\u00eb kan\u00eb humbur sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e tyre, pamjet e dhimbjeve dhe vuajtjeve, jan\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha shum\u00eb t\u00eb njohura p\u00ebr ta. Nj\u00ebzet vite m\u00eb par\u00eb, qindra mij\u00ebra shqiptar\u00eb t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs ishin detyruar t\u00eb iknin p\u00ebr t\u00eb shp\u00ebtuar nga regjimi serb. Shum\u00eb prej tyre ishin viktima t\u00eb krimeve t\u00eb tmerrshme, humb\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit e tyre dhe humb\u00ebn gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb kishin.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb rraskapitur, t\u00eb etur, t\u00eb uritur, t\u00eb plagosur e t\u00eb mavijosur nga torturat q\u00eb u ishin shkaktuar nga regjimi serb, me shpirtra t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruar dhe \u00ebndrra t\u00eb rr\u00ebnuara, rreth 1 milion shqiptar\u00eb kaluan kufirin me Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb n\u00eb vitet 1998 \u2013 1999.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb ngroht\u00ebsin\u00eb e njer\u00ebzve t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb q\u00eb erdh\u00ebn n\u00eb shp\u00ebtim t\u00eb tyre, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt me aq bujari hap\u00ebn sht\u00ebpit\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i strehuar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt ndan\u00eb tryezat e tyre modeste, shqiptar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs gjet\u00ebn humaniz\u00ebm t\u00eb pap\u00ebrshkruesh\u00ebm, gjet\u00ebn solidaritetin dhe sakrific\u00ebn e shqiptar\u00ebve.<\/p>\n<p>Te shqiptar\u00ebt e Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, ata gjet\u00ebn fijet e para t\u00eb shpres\u00ebs, dor\u00ebn e ndihm\u00ebs p\u00ebr t\u2019u ringritur, p\u00ebr t\u2019u rind\u00ebrtuar dhe dhan\u00eb premtimin q\u00eb n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, do t\u2019i q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pran\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit.<\/p>\n<p>E v\u00ebrtet\u00eb, historit\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. Shqip\u00ebria \u00ebsht\u00eb goditur nga nj\u00eb fatkeq\u00ebsi natyrore, nd\u00ebrsa 20 vjet m\u00eb par\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs ishin viktima t\u00eb spastrimit etnik, t\u00eb krimeve t\u00eb luft\u00ebs t\u00eb kryera nga regjimi i Slobodan Miloseviqit. Humbje t\u00eb shkaktuara nga natyra kundrejt shkat\u00ebrrimeve t\u00eb shkaktuara nga vet njeriu.<\/p>\n<p>Megjithat\u00eb, p\u00ebrball\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrimit, lidhja q\u00eb ne ndajm\u00eb si nj\u00eb popull q\u00eb i q\u00ebndrojm\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb pran\u00eb nj\u00ebri-tjetrit, na ka shtyr\u00eb p\u00ebrpara q\u00eb t\u00eb tejkalojm\u00eb \u00e7do sfid\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>Q\u00eb nga or\u00ebt e para q\u00eb t\u00ebrmeti vdekjeprur\u00ebs goditi Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb, shqiptar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs nxituan t\u2019u vijn\u00eb n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje e ndihm\u00eb qytetar\u00ebve t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb. Nd\u00ebrsa shteti i Kosov\u00ebs nd\u00ebrmori menj\u00ebher\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha masat e nevojshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebrguar ekipe t\u00eb specializuara q\u00eb do t\u00eb ndihmonin misionet e shp\u00ebtimit n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, njer\u00ebz nga t\u00eb gjitha fushat e jet\u00ebs u mobilizuan n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonshme.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb Kosov\u00ebn u hap\u00ebn pika grumbullimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbledhur ndihma. Menj\u00ebher\u00eb filluan nismat p\u00ebr mbledhjen e fondeve, ku nuk hezituan t\u00eb kontribuojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb \u2013 njer\u00ebz t\u00eb pasur e t\u00eb varf\u00ebr, t\u00eb sh\u00ebndetsh\u00ebm e t\u00eb s\u00ebmur\u00eb. Me lot n\u00eb sy dhe n\u00eb ankth p\u00ebr tragjedin\u00eb q\u00eb familjet shqiptare po p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb, mbledhja e ndihmave, sigurimi i ushqimeve, i rrobave dhe strehimit u b\u00eb q\u00ebllimi kryesor p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb qytetar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs.<\/p>\n<p>U b\u00ebm\u00eb d\u00ebshmitar\u00eb t\u00eb shum\u00eb shembujve t\u00eb k\u00ebtij angazhimi. Nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb vuan nga kanceri iu p\u00ebrgjigj thirrjes p\u00ebr t\u00eb dhuruar fonde; nj\u00eb polic dhuroi rrog\u00ebn e t\u00ebr\u00eb muajit; nj\u00eb shit\u00ebs rruge i \u00e7okollatave n\u00eb Prishtin\u00eb dhuroi t\u00eb ardhurat e tij t\u00eb dit\u00ebs p\u00ebr familjet n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri.<\/p>\n<p>F\u00ebmij\u00ebt n\u00eb shkolla mblodh\u00ebn ushqime, rroba dhe libra p\u00ebr v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit dhe motrat e tyre n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. Nj\u00eb grup tifoz\u00ebsh futbolli vazhdoi t\u00eb mbledh parreshtur donacione dhe t\u2019i d\u00ebrgoj\u00eb ato n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri. E shum\u00eb e shum\u00eb fytyra t\u00eb tjera t\u00eb shpres\u00ebs i pam\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb gjitha mediat e Kosov\u00ebs jan\u00eb tashm\u00eb n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbuluar \u00e7do ngjarje duke ua d\u00ebshmuar t\u00eb gjitha familjeve shqiptare se qytetar\u00ebt e Kosov\u00ebs jan\u00eb pran\u00eb tyre, n\u00eb \u00e7do moment. Duke ftuar secilin prej tyre me zem\u00ebr t\u00eb hapur q\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, n\u00eb sht\u00ebpit\u00eb e tyre. Nd\u00ebrsa angazhohen q\u00eb qindra vetura, autobus\u00eb, kamion\u00eb t\u00eb mbushura me ndihma, dhe qytetar\u00eb si nj\u00eb lum\u00eb shprese t\u2019i drejtohen pandalim Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar ndihm\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00eb p\u00ebrkushtuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb \u00e7do gj\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb leht\u00ebsuar sado pak dhimbjen e tyre, p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar se ata nuk jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u2019iu th\u00ebn\u00eb se s\u00eb bashku ne mund t\u2019i rind\u00ebrtojm\u00eb jet\u00ebt tona edhe nga hiri i shkat\u00ebrrimit dhe d\u00ebshp\u00ebrimit.<\/p>\n<p>Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb d\u00ebshmi unike e solidaritetit, e njer\u00ebzimit, e dashuris\u00eb njer\u00ebzore q\u00eb n\u00eb ndajm\u00eb, e cila \u00ebsht\u00eb n\u00eb thelb t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies ton\u00eb njer\u00ebzore. D\u00ebshmi e nj\u00eb kombi, populli i t\u00eb cilit mban e ruan pishtarin e shpres\u00ebs p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin. Padyshim ky \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebsim p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb njer\u00ebzim.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Jeta Krasniqi<\/strong> \u00ebsht\u00eb an\u00ebtare e bordit t\u00eb Rrjetit t\u00eb Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (RrGK), Menaxhere e Projekteve n\u00eb Institutin Demokratik t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (KDI), duke drejtuar projektin Perspektiva evropiane n\u00eb arritjen e nj\u00eb konsensusi p\u00ebr normalizimin e marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve me Serbin\u00eb. Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb e diplomuar n\u00eb Marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare n\u00eb Universitetin Johns Hopkins, Shkolla p\u00ebr Studime t\u00eb Avancuara Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare (SAIS) e specializuar n\u00eb \u00e7\u00ebshtjet e BE-s\u00eb dhe Ballkanit Per\u00ebndimor.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Ky artikull fillimisht \u00ebsht\u00eb publikuar n\u00eb <a href=\"https:\/\/kallxo.com\/gjate\/termeti-dridhjet-qe-na-bashkuan\/\">Kallxo.com. <\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Shum\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00eb humbura la pas t\u00ebrmeti q\u00eb goditi Shqip\u00ebrin\u00eb. La pas shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb d\u00ebshp\u00ebruar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt n\u00eb qiell t\u00eb hapur, jan\u00eb duke u lutur dhe duke shpresuar n\u00eb mrekulli. N\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb dashurit\u00eb e tyre t\u00eb cil\u00ebt jan\u00eb t\u00eb ngujuar prej dit\u00ebsh tashm\u00eb n\u00ebn rr\u00ebnojat e nd\u00ebrtesave t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrruara, t\u00eb shp\u00ebtojn\u00eb t\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":3342874,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3342873","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3342873","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3342873"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3342873\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3342882,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3342873\/revisions\/3342882"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3342874"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3342873"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3342873"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3342873"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}