Frida* ishte vet\u00ebm 17\nvje\u00e7e kur familja e detyruan t\u00eb martohej me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb 40 vje\u00e7ar. Prind\u00ebrit ia\nkishin b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe duhej t\u2019u bindej atyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo kishte takuar vet\u00ebm\npes\u00eb her\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, para se t\u00eb martohej me t\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhuna filloi q\u00eb jav\u00ebn e par\u00eb kur ata nis\u00ebn t\u00eb bashk\u00ebjetojn\u00eb. Shum\u00eb shpejt, Frida m\u00ebsoi se ai ishte abuzues i alkoolit dhe substancave narkotike. Me shpres\u00ebn se do t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohet, ajo p\u00ebr 10 vjet duroi abuzimin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Frida punoi n\u00eb nj\u00eb fabrik\u00eb prodhimi k\u00ebpuc\u00ebsh n\u00eb Tiran\u00eb, Shqip\u00ebri, si dhe gjat\u00eb viteve t\u00eb fundit u p\u00ebrball me shum\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb incidenti t\u00eb dhunsh\u00ebm, burri i saj ia\ntheu krahun dhe Frida nuk nuk mund t\u00eb punonte m\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Megjith\u00ebk\u00ebt\u00eb, pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsi nuk lejoi Frid\u00ebn t\u00eb\nmerrte pushim mjek\u00ebsor e as nuk e paguante m\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Frida, tashm\u00eb e papun\u00eb, u p\u00ebrball me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi ekonomike, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht pasi ende duhej t\u00eb kujdesej p\u00ebr tre f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj. Madje, pasi u largua nga puna, burri i saj abuziv u frustrua edhe m\u00eb tep\u00ebr. Pasi q\u00eb ai e q\u00eblloi Frid\u00ebn me thik\u00eb, fqinj\u00ebt thirr\u00ebn policin\u00eb dhe e arrestuan menj\u00ebher\u00eb. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pas k\u00ebtyre incidenteve, Frida nuk dinte se ku t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte ndihm\u00eb ose ku t\u00eb raportonte shkeljet e t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb pun\u00ebs. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb, teksa po d\u00ebgjonte radio, ajo m\u00ebsoi p\u00ebr\nLinj\u00ebn e K\u00ebshillimit p\u00ebr Grat\u00eb dhe Vajzat (LKGV) dhe thirri n\u00eb numrin e tyre pa\npages\u00eb: 116117.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebshilltar\u00ebt i dha mb\u00ebshtetje dhe mentorim falas e k\u00ebshillim psikologjik p\u00ebr mund\u00ebsit\u00eb e pun\u00ebsimit. Me lejen e saj, k\u00ebshilltar\u00ebt e referuan Frid\u00ebn n\u00eb Qendr\u00ebn e Aleanc\u00ebs Gjinore p\u00ebr Zhvillim, e cila e mb\u00ebshteti at\u00eb n\u00eb raportimin e shkeljeve t\u00eb t\u00eb drejtave n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Frida gjithashtu ndoqi trajnimet q\u00eb ofron LKGV\nrreth korniz\u00ebs ligjore n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, e cila mbron t\u00eb drejtat e pun\u00ebs s\u00eb grave,\nsi dhe institucionet ku mund t\u00eb raportohet diskriminimi me baz\u00eb gjinore n\u00eb\npun\u00ebsim.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“N\u00eb k\u00ebto trajnime, un\u00eb kisha mund\u00ebsin\u00eb t\u00eb takoja gra t\u00eb ndryshme me t\u00eb cilat kisha shum\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebta,” kujton Frida. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cT\u00eb gjitha ishim t\u00eb mbijetuara t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs n\u00eb familje, t\u00eb cilat, n\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb ose n\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, kishim p\u00ebrjetuar diskriminim dhe trajtim t\u00eb padrejt\u00eb n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs. Ndihem sikur pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit e din\u00eb kur grat\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb prekshme dhe t\u00eb painformuara, dhe ata p\u00ebrfitojn\u00eb nga kjo. Pun\u00ebdh\u00ebn\u00ebsit nuk respektojn\u00eb legjislacionin, dhe trajtojn\u00eb padrejt\u00ebsisht pun\u00ebtoret. Sidoqoft\u00eb, pasi ndoqa k\u00ebto trajnime, ndihem m\u00eb e fort\u00eb dhe shum\u00eb m\u00eb e sigurt, sepse tani un\u00eb di si t’i p\u00ebrgjigjem padrejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, si dhe k\u00eb t\u00eb kontaktoj p\u00ebr ndihm\u00eb. Tani e di se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb e ligjshme e \u00e7ka jo, cilat jan\u00eb t\u00eb drejtat e mia si pun\u00ebtore, dhe ku mund t\u00eb raportoj diskriminimin\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Me ndihm\u00ebn e k\u00ebshilltar\u00ebve t\u00eb LKGV, Frida ka\ngjetur pun\u00eb si rrobaqep\u00ebse n\u00eb nj\u00eb dyqan t\u00eb vog\u00ebl. Ajo gjithashtu filloi t\u00eb\nmarr\u00eb pjes\u00eb n\u00eb nj\u00eb kurs gatimi t\u00eb ofruar falas nga shteti p\u00ebr viktimat e dhun\u00ebs\nn\u00eb familje. Ajo ende takohet rregullisht me Qendr\u00ebn e Aleanc\u00ebs Gjinore p\u00ebr\nZhvillim p\u00ebr t\u00eb m\u00ebsuar m\u00eb shum\u00eb rreth t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb saj n\u00eb lidhje me pun\u00ebn,\npushimin mjek\u00ebsor dhe pag\u00ebn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Ende nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e leht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb, e as p\u00ebr grat\u00eb e tjera q\u00eb kan\u00eb ndjekur trajnimet dhe sh\u00ebrbimet tona,” thot\u00eb nj\u00eb nga k\u00ebshilltar\u00ebt e LKGV. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
“Sidoqoft\u00eb, informimi dhe mb\u00ebshtetja i ka\nfuqizuar ato. E ardhmja e tyre duket m\u00eb e ndritur”.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb historia e nj\u00eb gruaje, viktim\u00eb e dhun\u00ebs\nn\u00eb familje, e cila mori mb\u00ebshtetje nga LKGV. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kujtojm\u00eb se vet\u00ebm n\u00eb vitin 2020, LKGV pranoi 6,000 telefonata nga gra dhe vajza n\u00eb lidhje me diskriminimin n\u00eb vendin e pun\u00ebs, duke i ndihmuar ato t\u00eb njohin t\u00eb drejtat e tyre dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonin drejt\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo nism\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e projektit t\u00eb LKGV,\nmb\u00ebshtetur nga Aleanca Gjinore p\u00ebr Qendr\u00ebn p\u00ebr Zhvillim, Rrjeti i Grave t\u00eb\nKosov\u00ebs dhe partner\u00ebt e tjer\u00eb p\u00ebrmes nism\u00ebs “P\u00ebrparimi i t\u00eb Drejtave t\u00eb\nPun\u00ebs s\u00eb Grave”. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kjo nism\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb financuar nga Bashkimi Evropian\ndhe bashk\u00ebfinancuar nga Bashk\u00ebpunimi Suedez p\u00ebr Zhvillim (Sida).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
*Emri \u00ebsht\u00eb ndryshuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur identitetin e saj.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Frida* ishte vet\u00ebm 17 vje\u00e7e kur familja e detyruan t\u00eb martohej me nj\u00eb burr\u00eb 40 vje\u00e7ar. Prind\u00ebrit ia kishin b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb se ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb vajz\u00eb dhe duhej t\u2019u bindej atyre. Ajo kishte takuar vet\u00ebm pes\u00eb her\u00eb bashk\u00ebshortin e saj, para se t\u00eb martohej me t\u00eb. Dhuna filloi q\u00eb jav\u00ebn e par\u00eb kur ata nis\u00ebn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":3350398,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3350402","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350402","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3350402"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350402\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3350418,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350402\/revisions\/3350418"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3350398"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3350402"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3350402"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3350402"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}