Marte Tunaj, gruaja q\u00eb u dha shpres\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00eb grave t\u00eb dhunuara gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Ishte e para q\u00eb doli publikisht para trupit gjykues dhe deshmoj per dhunimin, vuajtjet, maltretimin dhe keqtrajtimin qe kishte perjetuar gjate luftes..<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ajo deshi t\u00eb gjej\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi p\u00ebr krimin e ushtruar mbi trupin e saj dhe t\u00eb merrte epilogun drejt nxjerrjes n\u00eb sip\u00ebrfaqe q\u00eb dhuna seksuale si arme e luft\u00ebs e kishte atakuar at\u00eb n\u00eb format m\u00eb barbare t\u00eb mundshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cBota duhet t\u00eb dij\u00eb se \u00e7far\u00eb ndodhi me ne dhe ne duhet t\u00eb rr\u00ebfejm\u00eb\u201d, ishte porosia q\u00eb Marte Tunaj pati p\u00ebrcjell\u00eb sa ishte gjall\u00eb tek viktimat tjera.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Dhunimi ndaj Martes kishte ndodhur n\u00eb maj t\u00eb vitit 1999. Deklarata e saj e fuqishme b\u00ebri q\u00eb dhunuesi Millosh Jokiq, t\u00eb arrestohej menj\u00ebher\u00eb nga forcat e KFOR-it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Por, historia e saj nuk p\u00ebrfundon k\u00ebtu. Ajo e kishte shum\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb q\u00eb pas luft\u00ebs t`i rr\u00ebfente familjes dhe burrit p\u00ebr t\u00ebr\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb i kishte ndodhe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cE mora guximin dhe i dhash\u00eb vet\u00ebs detyr\u00eb q\u00eb ta denoncoja n\u00eb polici Jokiqin. E b\u00ebra k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr hir t\u00eb shum\u00eb n\u00ebnave e grave shtatz\u00ebna q\u00eb ishin keqtrajtuar nga Jokiqi. Burri im e mori vesh tek pasi u b\u00eb gjyqi dhe i jam shum\u00eb mir\u00ebnjoh\u00ebs q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrkrahu deri n\u00eb fund,\u201d rr\u00ebfente ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Tunaj thot\u00eb se guximin p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar si grua shqiptare ia fali Kosov\u00ebs, djalit t\u00eb saj Sherifit, i cili ishte pjes\u00ebtar i U\u00c7K-s\u00eb dhe ishte i vetmi i mitur n\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00eb rajonin e Vitis\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vet\u00eb Sherifi kishte apeluar tek t\u00eb gjitha grat\u00eb dhe vajzat tjera t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs q\u00eb ndaj tyre u ushtrua dhun\u00eb seksuale dhe fizike nga forcat serbe t\u00eb mos heshtin, por t\u00eb denoncojn\u00eb krimin ndaj tyre. Ai ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se ky krim duhet t\u00eb nd\u00ebshkohet dhe t\u00eb mos mbetet anash as nga ana e institucioneve.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Feride Rushiti, drejtore e Qendr\u00ebs Kosovare p\u00ebr rehabilitimin e t\u00eb mbijetuarve t\u00eb tortur\u00ebs, thot\u00eb se guximi i Marte Tunaj p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshmuar publikisht dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb deklaruar k\u00ebto krime ka qen\u00eb \u201cjasht\u00ebzakonisht frym\u00ebzues\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cT\u00eb deklarosh publikisht nj\u00eb traum\u00eb t\u00eb till\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrballesh jo vet\u00ebm me traum\u00ebn personale, por edhe me stigm\u00ebn, paragjykimet dhe padrejt\u00ebsin\u00eb. Pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebsaj Martja ia doli ta ngris\u00eb z\u00ebrin duke treguar guxim dhe heroiz\u00ebm\u201d, tha ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe drejtorja e Forumit Iniciativa Qytetare, Dajana Berisha ka th\u00ebn\u00eb se, \u201cMarte Tunaj duhet t\u00eb nderohet p\u00ebr guximin e saj q\u00eb d\u00ebshmoi kund\u00ebr krimit ndaj grave dhe vajzave n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Ajo tha se Martja theu tabun\u00eb e krijuar p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb krim n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb kosovare\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Pas gjith\u00eb p\u00ebrjetimeve jo vet\u00ebm Marte Tunaj, por t\u00eb gjitha te mbijetuarat e dhunes seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit, iu \u00ebsht\u00eb dashur t\u00eb ballafaqohen edhe me njohje t\u00eb statusit nga Qeveria e Kosov\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb pat ngritur z\u00ebrin edhe vet\u00eb Martja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cE kam guximin t\u00eb flas n\u00eb em\u00ebr t\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha te mbujetuarave te dhunes seksuale q\u00eb shteti t\u00eb mendoj dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebj t\u00eb pamundur\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u2019ua mund\u00ebsoj nj\u00eb jete me dinjitoze. \u00cbsht\u00eb gjynah q\u00eb te mbijetuarat e dhunes seksuale te mbesin n\u00ebn m\u00ebshir\u00ebn e l\u00ebmosh\u00ebs. Ato kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr p\u00ebrkujdesje e tretmane t\u00eb ndryshme mjek\u00ebsore\u201d, qe shprehur ajo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Marte Tunaj nd\u00ebrroi jet\u00eb n\u00eb viitn 2016, duke mos e pritur vendimin e institucioneve t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs, t\u00eb cilat p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb sh\u00ebnuan sivjet, m\u00eb 14 prill, Dit\u00ebn e t\u00eb Mbijetuarve t\u00eb Dhun\u00ebs Seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs s\u00eb fundit. Kjo dit\u00eb, sipas autoriteteve, \u00ebsht\u00eb shpallur p\u00ebr “ta njohur dhimbjen” e t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuarve t\u00eb dhun\u00ebs seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs dhe p\u00ebr t’i kontribuar kujtes\u00ebs kolektive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Marte Tunaj, gruaja q\u00eb u dha shpres\u00eb p\u00ebr jet\u00eb grave t\u00eb dhunuara gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb. Ishte e para q\u00eb doli publikisht para trupit gjykues dhe deshmoj per dhunimin, vuajtjet, maltretimin dhe keqtrajtimin qe kishte perjetuar gjate luftes.. Ajo deshi t\u00eb gjej\u00eb drejt\u00ebsi p\u00ebr krimin e ushtruar mbi trupin e saj dhe t\u00eb merrte epilogun […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":3359938,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3359937","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3359937","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3359937"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3359937\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3359941,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3359937\/revisions\/3359941"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3359938"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3359937"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3359937"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3359937"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}