N\u00eb shkollat e Kosov\u00ebs, heshtja rreth ngacmimeve seksuale ka qen\u00eb e pranishme p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, t\u00eb rriturit n\u00ebnkupton hyrjen n\u00eb klasa ku kjo tem\u00eb nuk diskutohet kurr\u00eb, librat shkollor\u00eb mezi e prekin, dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, sidomos vajzat, mbeten pa dijenin\u00eb ose vet\u00ebbesimin p\u00ebr ta njohur apo raportuar abuzimin. Kjo heshtje sjell pasoja: t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb q\u00eb p\u00ebrballen me ngacmime mbeten vet\u00ebm, t\u00eb frik\u00ebsuar nga stigma dhe t\u00eb pasigurt\u00eb se ku t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb ndihm\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
OJQ Ura Sociale, me qend\u00ebr n\u00eb Vushtrri, vendosi ta ndryshoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb realitet. E udh\u00ebhequr nga z\u00ebrat e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve, m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebn\u00ebsve dhe familjeve, nisma e saj u nd\u00ebrtua jo vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngritur vet\u00ebdijen, por edhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb ofruar mjete praktike, vet\u00ebbesim dhe hap\u00ebsira t\u00eb sigurta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Gjat\u00eb nism\u00ebs, 125 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs nga tre shkolla t\u00eb mesme t\u00eb Vushtrris\u00eb u bashkuan n\u00eb nj\u00eb program q\u00eb kombinonte ngritjen e vet\u00ebdijes, dialogun dhe udh\u00ebzimin praktik. N\u00eb pun\u00ebtorit\u00eb e udh\u00ebhequra nga trajner\u00ebt e Ur\u00ebs Sociale, adoleshent\u00ebt fol\u00ebn hapur se \u00e7far\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb ngacmimi seksual, si ndodh dhe si mund t\u00eb ndalohet. Sesionet shkuan p\u00ebrtej p\u00ebrkufizimeve t\u00eb thjeshta dhe u shnd\u00ebrruan n\u00eb hap\u00ebsira t\u00eb sigurta ku nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit ngrit\u00ebn pyetje t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira, reflektuan mbi p\u00ebrvojat e tyre dhe m\u00ebsuan se z\u00ebri i tyre ka pesh\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Edhe stafi shkollor iu bashkua procesit. Gjasht\u00ebmb\u00ebdhjet\u00eb edukator\u00eb, udh\u00ebheq\u00ebs shkollash dhe psikolog\u00eb mor\u00ebn pjes\u00eb n\u00eb seanca trajnimi t\u00eb dizajnuara p\u00ebr t\u2019i ndihmuar ata t\u00eb njohin shenjat e ngacmimit dhe t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjen me ndjeshm\u00ebri dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb prej tyre, ishte hera e par\u00eb q\u00eb iu qas\u00ebn m\u00ebsimdh\u00ebnies s\u00eb tyre p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb qasjeje t\u00eb ndjeshme ndaj gjinis\u00eb, duke kuptuar se dinamika e klas\u00ebs mund ose ta forcoj\u00eb heshtjen, ose ta nxis\u00eb respektin dhe barazin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u00ebsuesi Ibrahim Lahu, tani drejtor i Shkoll\u00ebs s\u00eb Mesme Profesionale \u201cLutfi Musiqi\u201d, thot\u00eb: \u201cNx\u00ebn\u00ebsit shpreh\u00ebn interes t\u00eb madh p\u00ebr k\u00ebto ligj\u00ebrata, duke treguar se kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb shum\u00eb diskutime t\u00eb hapura mbi parandalimin e ngacmimit seksual. Projekti d\u00ebshmoi se trajtime t\u00eb tilla duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebhen pjes\u00eb e p\u00ebrhershme e procesit edukativ.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Prind\u00ebrit poashtu ishin pjes\u00eb e k\u00ebsaj iniciative p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb takimi t\u00eb dedikuar p\u00ebr ta, ku n\u00ebnat dhe baballar\u00ebt u inkurajuan t\u00eb thyenin tabut\u00eb e vjetra dhe t\u00eb flisnin me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre p\u00ebr sigurin\u00eb, respektin dhe dinjitetin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hap pas hapi, dija u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim. Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit dol\u00ebn nga sesionet me nj\u00eb kuptim m\u00eb t\u00eb qart\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb drejtave t\u00eb tyre dhe me guximin p\u00ebr t\u00eb folur hapur. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se 90% e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve e vler\u00ebsuan shum\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb proces. Ajo q\u00eb filloi si diskutime t\u00eb udh\u00ebhequra, shpejt u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb nj\u00eb kultur\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimi mes bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00ebve, ku nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit ndanin at\u00eb q\u00eb kishin m\u00ebsuar edhe me shok\u00ebt e tyre. P\u00ebrmes k\u00ebtij shk\u00ebmbimi t\u00eb njohurive, t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetur me materiale informuese dhe fushata online, nisma arriti indirekt tek m\u00eb shum\u00eb se 1,500 bashk\u00ebmoshatar\u00eb. Edhe prind\u00ebrit dol\u00ebn t\u00eb fuqizuar, me njohuri dhe vet\u00ebbesim p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebto biseda t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, duke e kthyer heshtjen n\u00eb besim dhe dialog. M\u00ebsuesit fituan mjete praktike dhe nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb t\u00eb re p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsie, dhe shum\u00eb prej tyre kan\u00eb vazhduar t\u00eb trajtojn\u00eb tem\u00ebn e ngacmimeve seksuale n\u00eb klasa, nganj\u00ebher\u00eb edhe gjat\u00eb aktiviteteve shkollore, duke e mbajtur gjall\u00eb bised\u00ebn edhe pas p\u00ebrfundimit t\u00eb iniciativ\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Nisma e Ura Sociale \u201cNgritja e vet\u00ebdijes p\u00ebr parandalimin e ngacmimeve seksuale\u201d u realizua me mb\u00ebshtetjen e Fondit t\u00eb Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (FGK), i Rrjetit t\u00eb Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (RrGK), financuar nga Agjencia Austriake p\u00ebr Zhvillim (ADA) dhe bashk\u00ebfinancuar nga Agjencia Suedeze p\u00ebr Bashk\u00ebpunim dhe Zhvillim Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar (Sida), n\u00eb shum\u00ebn prej 4,318\u20ac, nga tetori 2021 deri n\u00eb mars t\u00eb vitit 2022. Nisma kontribuoi drejtp\u00ebrdrejt n\u00eb Programin e RrGK-s\u00eb \u201cEdukimi q\u00eb transformon normat gjinore<\/a>\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" N\u00eb shkollat e Kosov\u00ebs, heshtja rreth ngacmimeve seksuale ka qen\u00eb e pranishme p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb t\u00eb rinj, t\u00eb rriturit n\u00ebnkupton hyrjen n\u00eb klasa ku kjo tem\u00eb nuk diskutohet kurr\u00eb, librat shkollor\u00eb mezi e prekin, dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit, sidomos vajzat, mbeten pa dijenin\u00eb ose vet\u00ebbesimin p\u00ebr ta njohur apo raportuar abuzimin. Kjo heshtje sjell pasoja: […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3366582,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3366581","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3366581","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3366581"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3366581\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3366660,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3366581\/revisions\/3366660"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3366582"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3366581"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3366581"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3366581"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}