{"id":3367011,"date":"2025-11-12T14:20:08","date_gmt":"2025-11-12T14:20:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/?p=3367011"},"modified":"2025-11-12T14:20:09","modified_gmt":"2025-11-12T14:20:09","slug":"gruaja-hyjnore-fuqizon-nxenesit-dhe-prinderit-per-te-luftuar-ngacmimin-seksual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/gruaja-hyjnore-fuqizon-nxenesit-dhe-prinderit-per-te-luftuar-ngacmimin-seksual\/","title":{"rendered":"Gruaja Hyjnore Fuqizon Nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit dhe Prind\u00ebrit p\u00ebr t\u00eb Luftuar Ngacmimin Seksual"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nj\u00eb num\u00ebr shqet\u00ebsues nx\u00ebn\u00ebsish n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb sulme apo ngacmime seksuale, duke filluar t\u2019i shohin ato si pjes\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb vajza, cenimi i dinjitetit nis q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re, shpesh p\u00ebrmes ngacmimeve verbale n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Edhe pse k\u00ebto sjellje jan\u00eb t\u00eb dukshme, rrall\u00ebher\u00eb sfidohen. N\u00eb shkolla mungojn\u00eb programet q\u00eb trajtojn\u00eb edukat\u00ebn seksuale, ngacmimin seksual, parandalimin apo trajtimin e tij, si edhe dhun\u00ebn seksuale. N\u00eb familje, k\u00ebto tema shpesh mbeten tabu dhe nuk diskutohen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E vendosur t\u00eb adresoj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb problem, organizata joqeveritare Gruaja Hyjnore nd\u00ebrmori hapa p\u00ebr t\u00eb ngritur nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimin mbi ngacmimin dhe dhun\u00ebn seksuale, si brenda ashtu edhe jasht\u00eb shkollave, duke inkurajuar nj\u00ebkoh\u00ebsisht prind\u00ebrit t\u00eb thyejn\u00eb heshtjen dhe t\u00eb flasin hapur me f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nisma e Gruaja Hyjnore u zbatua p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb aktivitetesh t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendruara, duke filluar me sesione hyr\u00ebse p\u00ebr 60 prind\u00ebr dhe m\u00ebsues mbi r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e integrimit t\u00eb edukat\u00ebs seksuale n\u00eb kurrikulat shkollore dhe avokimin p\u00ebr caktimin e nj\u00eb personi p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebs n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb p\u00ebr raportimin e rasteve t\u00eb ngacmimit. Gjat\u00eb sesioneve u theksua roli ky\u00e7 i prind\u00ebrve n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjen e f\u00ebmij\u00ebve t\u00eb tyre, p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb diskutimin e hapur t\u00eb temave t\u00eb ndjeshme, ofrimin e mb\u00ebshtetjes emocionale dhe raportimin n\u00eb koh\u00eb t\u00eb rasteve, me q\u00ebllim q\u00eb heshtja t\u00eb mos lejoj\u00eb vazhdimin e ngacmimeve apo abuzimeve. Pothuajse t\u00eb gjith\u00eb prind\u00ebrit pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebs u pajtuan se edukata seksuale duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshihet n\u00eb kurrikul\u00ebn shkollore, duke theksuar se f\u00ebmij\u00ebt duhet t\u00eb marrin informacion t\u00eb sakt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb besuesh\u00ebm nga profesionist\u00ebt, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb ta k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb vet\u00eb nga burime t\u00eb ndryshme e jo gjithmon\u00eb t\u00eb sigurta.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00eb pas, iniciativa kaloi n\u00ebp\u00ebr klasa, ku u mbajt\u00ebn 11 pun\u00ebtori nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsuese n\u00eb n\u00ebnt\u00eb shkolla t\u00eb komun\u00ebs s\u00eb Gjilanit, duke p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb gjithsej 401 nx\u00ebn\u00ebs. Pun\u00ebtorit\u00eb trajtuan temat e ngacmimit seksual, pubertetit, ndryshimeve trupore dhe infeksioneve seksualisht t\u00eb transmetueshme. Ligj\u00ebruesit nga Gruaja Hyjnore v\u00ebrejt\u00ebn se shumica e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve kishin njohuri shum\u00eb t\u00eb kufizuara p\u00ebr seksualitetin dhe zhvillimin biologjik. Megjith\u00ebse k\u00ebto tema p\u00ebrfshihen n\u00eb l\u00ebnd\u00ebt e biologjis\u00eb dhe psikologjis\u00eb, nx\u00ebn\u00ebsit raportuan se shpesh anashkalohen ose u lihen p\u00ebr vet\u00ebstudim. Ligj\u00ebruesit vun\u00eb re gjithashtu se normat kulturore e shoq\u00ebrore ndikojn\u00eb ndjesh\u00ebm n\u00eb gatishm\u00ebrin\u00eb e nx\u00ebn\u00ebsve p\u00ebr t\u00eb diskutuar k\u00ebto \u00e7\u00ebshtje, me nj\u00eb hapje m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe n\u00eb shkollat urbane sesa n\u00eb ato rurale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P\u00ebrve\u00e7 sesioneve me m\u00ebsues, prind\u00ebr dhe nx\u00ebn\u00ebs, Gruaja Hyjnore realizoi edhe nj\u00eb fushat\u00eb n\u00eb rrjete sociale p\u00ebr promovimin e edukat\u00ebs seksuale, e cila arriti gati 70,000 persona n\u00eb Gjilan dhe fshatrat p\u00ebrreth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nisma u p\u00ebrmbyll me nj\u00eb tryez\u00eb t\u00eb rrumbullak\u00ebt q\u00eb bashkoi institucione, prind\u00ebr dhe t\u00eb rinj, duke theksuar r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb e edukat\u00ebs seksuale, p\u00ebrfshirjes prind\u00ebrore dhe parandalimit t\u00eb hersh\u00ebm. Pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit e vler\u00ebsuan lart kontributin e Gruaja Hyjnore n\u00eb ngritjen e vet\u00ebdijes p\u00ebr k\u00ebto tema, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr ngacmimin seksual, duke theksuar se edukata seksuale duhet t\u00eb trajtoj\u00eb jo vet\u00ebm sh\u00ebndetin seksual, por edhe ngacmimin dhe abuzimin.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hap pas hapi, heshtja nisi t\u00eb z\u00ebvend\u00ebsohej me dialog, dhe tabut\u00eb filluan t\u00eb thyhen. Ajo q\u00eb dikur ishte e path\u00ebnshme, tani u b\u00eb p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi e p\u00ebrbashk\u00ebt. Iniciativa e Gruaja Hyjnore nisi ta shnd\u00ebrroj\u00eb heshtjen n\u00eb dialog, duke e z\u00ebvend\u00ebsuar stigmatizimin me njohuri dhe mbrojtje.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nisma e Gruaja Hyjnore \u201cEdukata seksuale si l\u00ebnd\u00eb m\u00ebsimore n\u00eb shkolla fillore dhe t\u00eb mesme\u201d u realizua me mb\u00ebshtetje nga Fondi i Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (KWF) i Rrjetit t\u00eb Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (KWN), financuar nga Agjencia Austriake p\u00ebr Zhvillim (ADA) dhe bashk\u00ebfinancuar nga Agjencia Suedeze p\u00ebr Bashk\u00ebpunim Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar p\u00ebr Zhvillim (Sida), n\u00eb shum\u00ebn prej 4,975 euro, nga tetori 2021 deri n\u00eb maj 2022. Nisma kontribuoi drejtp\u00ebrdrejt n\u00eb programin e KWN-s\u00eb \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/programet\/permiresimi-i-qasjes-ne-edukim-cilesor-dhe-te-ndjeshem-gjinor\/\">Edukimi q\u00eb transformon normat gjinore<\/a>\u201d.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nj\u00eb num\u00ebr shqet\u00ebsues nx\u00ebn\u00ebsish n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb sulme apo ngacmime seksuale, duke filluar t\u2019i shohin ato si pjes\u00eb t\u00eb zakonshme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme. P\u00ebr shum\u00eb vajza, cenimi i dinjitetit nis q\u00eb n\u00eb mosh\u00eb t\u00eb re, shpesh p\u00ebrmes ngacmimeve verbale n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Edhe pse k\u00ebto sjellje jan\u00eb t\u00eb dukshme, rrall\u00ebher\u00eb sfidohen. N\u00eb shkolla mungojn\u00eb programet [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":3367012,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3367011","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-lajme"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3367011","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3367011"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3367011\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3367015,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3367011\/revisions\/3367015"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3367012"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3367011"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3367011"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3367011"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}