\u201cAty i kem marr\u00eb hapat e par\u00eb. Aty e kemi nd\u00ebrtu jet\u00ebn p\u00ebr s\u00eb dyti prej zeros. E kemi dit\u00eb q\u00eb na nuk jemi kon fajtore p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ka ndodh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebr D.K., t\u00eb mbijetuar\u00ebn e dhun\u00ebs seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhin rolin q\u00eb Medica Kosova pati p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar at\u00eb t\u00eb rimerrte jet\u00ebn e saj pas viteve t\u00eb traum\u00ebs, stigm\u00ebs dhe izolimit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Q\u00eb nga viti 2003, Medica Kosova, organizat\u00eb an\u00ebtare e Rrjetit t\u00eb Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs (RrGK), ka mb\u00ebshtetur t\u00eb mbijetuarat e dhun\u00ebs seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs p\u00ebrmes sh\u00ebrbimeve psikosociale, ndihm\u00ebs juridike, programeve p\u00ebr fuqizim ekonomik dhe avokimit. Nj\u00eb nga grat\u00eb q\u00eb ka p\u00ebrfituar nga kjo mb\u00ebshtetje \u00ebsht\u00eb D.K., e cila, gjat\u00eb nj\u00eb vizite nga RrGK, me bujari ndau p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn e saj t\u00eb sh\u00ebrimit, q\u00ebndrueshm\u00ebris\u00eb dhe rind\u00ebrtimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmeje p\u00ebrtej traum\u00ebs s\u00eb luft\u00ebs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kur D.K. u p\u00ebrfshi p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb me Medica Kosova n\u00eb vitin 2002, ajo ishte nj\u00eb nga shum\u00eb grat\u00eb q\u00eb bartnin plag\u00ebt e heshtura t\u00eb luft\u00ebs. Si shum\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuara t\u00eb tjera, ajo p\u00ebrballej me pasojat afatgjata t\u00eb traum\u00ebs, si dhe me stigm\u00ebn dhe gjykimin q\u00eb i pengonin grat\u00eb t\u00eb flisnin hapur p\u00ebr p\u00ebrvojat e tyre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cN\u00eb rrug\u00eb me dal\u00eb, n\u00eb dasm\u00eb me shku, krejt jon kon me gisht. Grat\u00eb largoheshin prej neve.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrmes grupeve t\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetjes psikosociale dhe seancave individuale, D.K. gradualisht arriti ta kuptoj\u00eb se nuk ishte p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebse p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb i kishte ndodhur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cAty i kem marr\u00eb hapat e par\u00eb. Aty e kemi nd\u00ebrtu jet\u00ebn p\u00ebr s\u00eb dyti prej zeros. E kemi dit\u00eb q\u00eb na nuk jemi kon fajtore p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ka ndodh.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Medica Kosova i dha D.K.-s\u00eb vet\u00ebbesim, mekanizma praktik\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u p\u00ebrballur me v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsit\u00eb dhe forc\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb ecur p\u00ebrpara. Teknikat q\u00eb ajo m\u00ebsoi vite m\u00eb par\u00eb vazhdojn\u00eb t\u00eb jen\u00eb pjes\u00eb e jet\u00ebs s\u00eb saj t\u00eb p\u00ebrditshme dhe ende e ndihmojn\u00eb t\u2019i menaxhoj\u00eb momentet e v\u00ebshtira.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cNa me u afru te dritarja, me marr\u00eb frym\u00eb shlir kur jena keq. Ata hala e demonstroj p\u00ebr \u00e7do dit\u00eb. Kur m\u00eb ngat\u00ebrrohet kryt, rri vet\u00ebm derisa t\u00eb qet\u00ebsohem.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrmes programeve p\u00ebr fuqizim ekonomik, D.K. dhe shum\u00eb gra t\u00eb tjera arrit\u00ebn t\u00eb siguronin t\u00eb ardhura p\u00ebr familjet e tyre dhe t\u00eb rifitonin ndjenj\u00ebn e pavar\u00ebsis\u00eb. Me mb\u00ebshtetjen e Medica Kosova, ajo u p\u00ebrfshi n\u00eb bujq\u00ebsi dhe blegtori, duke krijuar mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e saj t\u00eb vazhdonin shkollimin dhe duke e ndihmuar familjen e saj t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtonte nj\u00eb t\u00eb ardhme m\u00eb t\u00eb q\u00ebndrueshme.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMe ato pare i kem shkollu f\u00ebmij\u00ebt, kem renovu shpin\u00eb dhe e kem vazhdu jet\u00ebn. Tasht f\u00ebmij\u00ebt ton\u00eb jon shkollu, jon martu e i kan familjet e veta.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u00ebrvoja e D.K.-s\u00eb tregon se si mb\u00ebshtetja afatgjat\u00eb, e cila nd\u00ebrthur ndihm\u00ebn psikosociale me fuqizimin ekonomik, mund t\u2019i ndihmoj\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuarat t\u00eb rifitojn\u00eb kontrollin mbi jet\u00ebn e tyre dhe t\u00eb krijojn\u00eb mund\u00ebsi p\u00ebr brezat e ardhsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sot, kur D.K. reflekton mbi rrug\u00ebtimin e saj, ajo e sheh me habi transformimin q\u00eb ajo dhe shum\u00eb t\u00eb mbijetuara t\u00eb tjera kan\u00eb arritur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cSi me lind prej dytshi na ka ndihmu. Hej ku jemi kon na e ku jem sot. Vet mu kujtu nuk munesh me besu a jom qajo q\u00eb jom kon e qitasht.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
D.K. beson se organizata si Medica Kosova kan\u00eb luajtur rol vendimtar p\u00ebr t\u2019i ndihmuar t\u00eb mbijetuarat t\u00eb sh\u00ebrohen dhe t\u00eb ecin p\u00ebrpara.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMos me pas kon qikjo mb\u00ebshtetje, na ishim kon shum\u00eb mbrapa. Mos me pas kon k\u00ebto organizata, kurr s\u2019kishim guxu me qel goj\u00ebn.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Mesazhi i saj p\u00ebr grat\u00eb q\u00eb ende mund t\u00eb hezitojn\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojn\u00eb ndihm\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb i thjesht\u00eb:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201cMos e ngjo ask\u00ebnd. Lype t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn tane, se tu u mbyll n\u00eb vete ve\u00e7 e shkatrron veten.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
N\u00eb prag t\u00eb Dit\u00ebs Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtare p\u00ebr Eliminimin e Dhun\u00ebs Seksuale n\u00eb Konflikt, rr\u00ebfimi i D.K.-s\u00eb sh\u00ebrben si nj\u00eb kujtes\u00eb e fuqishme se rim\u00ebk\u00ebmbja \u00ebsht\u00eb e mundur kur t\u00eb mbijetuarat kan\u00eb qasje n\u00eb mb\u00ebshtetje afatgjat\u00eb, mir\u00ebkuptim dhe mund\u00ebsi ekonomike.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Inicialet e t\u00eb mbijetuar\u00ebs s\u00eb p\u00ebrfshir\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rr\u00ebfim jan\u00eb ndryshuar p\u00ebr t\u00eb mbrojtur identitetin e saj.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n N\u00ebse ju ose dikush q\u00eb njihni \u00ebsht\u00eb e mbijetuar apo i mbijetuar i dhun\u00ebs seksuale dhe ka nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr mb\u00ebshtetje, ju lutemi kontaktoni Rrjetin e Grave t\u00eb Kosov\u00ebs p\u00ebr informata, referim dhe ndihm\u00eb.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u201cAty i kem marr\u00eb hapat e par\u00eb. Aty e kemi nd\u00ebrtu jet\u00ebn p\u00ebr s\u00eb dyti prej zeros. E kemi dit\u00eb q\u00eb na nuk jemi kon fajtore p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb ka ndodh.\u201d P\u00ebr D.K., t\u00eb mbijetuar\u00ebn e dhun\u00ebs seksuale gjat\u00eb luft\u00ebs n\u00eb Kosov\u00eb, k\u00ebto fjal\u00eb p\u00ebrmbledhin rolin q\u00eb Medica Kosova pati p\u00ebr ta ndihmuar at\u00eb t\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_FSMCFIC_featured_image_caption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_nocaption":"","_FSMCFIC_featured_image_hide":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[58],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3368284","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-lajme"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3368284","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3368284"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3368284\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3368285,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3368284\/revisions\/3368285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3368284"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3368284"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/womensnetwork.org\/sq\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3368284"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}