Hyrie Hana – The Woman Who Divided Her Life Between the Theater and the Prison

“When they put me in prison, I used to sing.” This was Hyrie Hana, who spent her life between the prison and theater.

A strong woman, an unstoppable activist, a shining star of Albanian women’s strength and resistance. Her life was divided between the theater and the prison. Persecuted over the years by the Serbian UDB (B (Uprava Državne Bezbednosti – State Security Administration),  due to her ideological beliefs, Hyrie died without having the opportunity to fully shine. She is known as a pillar of the Theater of Kosovo.

She had started working as an actress in 1948 with the creation of the Theater troupe, until 1957 when she was separated from it. During this difficult journey between reality and magical likeness, Hyria performed ten roles in the theater. She is remembered among the profession for her sacrifice during the regime of that time.

She herself said, “My life has been wasted, theater-prison, prison-theatre. There came a time when I didn’t know if I was playing a role in prison or on stage,” said Hyrie Hana.

Hyria and her family were persecuted by the Serbian UBD for years because of their ideological beliefs. They also killed her only brother, Xheladin Hana, leaving Hyria with pain and suffering throughout her life.

Her colleagues remember her as one of the rare courageous women who faced both prison and all the tragedies that had happened to her family. The actress Safete Rogova said that Hyrie Hana was one of the first actresses, together with Meribane Shala and Katerina Josipin, who stepped on the stage since the Regional Theater was founded in Pristina.

“From the first rehearsals, Hyria took on a significant role. When the premiere was approaching, Hyrie was forbidden to go on stage, and the show failed because the UDB called her and did not let her participate in the premiere of the show, imprisoning her,” said Rogova in a television documentary about the life of Hyrije Hana.

Hana did not give up; she tried her luck in the theaters of Mitrovica, Gjakova, and Skopje, but even there, the Serbian regime persecuted her and did not let her be free on stage.

Hyria was also the first announcer at the first radio station in Prizren in 1945 and then worked at Radio Prishtina in 1946.

Hyrie remains in the hearts not only of those in the theater but also in human memory, as a shining star of the strength and resistance of Albanian women. Hyrie Hana was born in 1929 and passed away in 2004.

Legal Representation by KWN: A Step towards Justice for Women

K.E.[1], a woman from Skenderaj despite living with her daughter for ten years after suffering domestic violence and divorce, found herself facing a daunting battle over her child’s custody. This happened following an unexpected move by her ex-husband filing a lawsuit seeking custody rights over their child. However, the unwavering support of the Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN) and the legal representation provided by KWN-appointed lawyer Fitim Gashi, led to victory in the courtroom.

During the initial stages of the court proceedings, at the first encounter between KWN, the lawyer, and the concerned party, she experienced a mixture of fear and shock due to the unexpected custody request from her ex-husband. This was particularly surprising considering the fact that the girl’s father had shown no interest in their daughter for the past ten years, not even making an effort to meet her.

With a sense of uncertainty about where to begin, K.E. received assistance in understanding the rights and legal procedures associated with child custody. The lawyer, committed to supporting K.E. and her daughter, stood ready to provide guidance and counsel on every step forward.

“Representing the defendant in this case was a source of immense satisfaction for me, as I firmly believe that my efforts made a significant contribution exclusively focused on protecting the child’s best interests. Despite being a challenging trial, as it was presided over by an ill-suited judge in relation to the legal teams, my colleague, the plaintiff’s lawyer, and I successfully persuaded the parties we represented to reach a mutual agreement on matters of child custody, visitation, and financial support. We firmly believed that this was the only way to protect the best interests of the child involved in the case”, said Gashi.

This journey was far from smooth, as there were numerous challenges encountered along the way. Despite the Center for Social Work’s recommendation that the child should remain with the parent with a better financial income, KWN presented compelling evidence that emphasized the significance of a committed parent who can provide a safe environment, highlighting that this factor outweighs mere financial stability.

“The CSW’s representative from Podujevo exhibited a detrimental approach by aligning herself with the plaintiff, rather than prioritizing the child’s best interests. Instead of recognizing the father’s lack of involvement for the past ten years, she expressed an opinion in favour of granting him custody.

This was concerning for me as the defender, as CSW’s officials often tend to be biased and unprofessional”, he added.

The party reached out to KWN for assistance in February 2023, and through the efforts of the lawyers, a settlement was reached in July of the same year. The party represented by KWN won the case, and the issue of the father’s contact with the child was resolved.

The party won a challenging battle, but it gave her strength and encouragement for the future.

“I am very pleased with your service, support, and representation that you have provided. The support you have provided for me is something I wouldn’t find anywhere else, and this is what I needed the most. Thanks to you and your commitment, I am now with my daughter,” said K.E.

K.E’s story and the assistance provided by KWN serve as an inspiration to many other women who are facing similar challenges in Kosovo.

Through the assistance provided by KWN, many cases of women who have experienced gender-based violence, domestic violence and sexual violence have resulted in positive outcomes for the parties.

They were encouraged not to give up and to fight for their rights. 

A Life Free from Gender-Based Violence remains one of the areas where KWN will continue to work through the implementation of its Strategy for 2023-2026[ZR1] .  The majority of the KWN’s advocacy work has been supported by the Austrian Development Agency (ADA), co-financed by Sida, leading to the achievement of many significant changes towards the protection of individuals experiencing violence

KWN remains open to cooperation and assistance to victims of gender-based violence through free legal advice and referral to relevant institutions. If you need free legal aid for cases of gender-based violence, or know someone who needs it, contact us at: +383 (0)48 105 800.


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Homeless After the Shelter

“I have nowhere to go but here” – R.S. begins her confession. She is in one of the shelters in Kosovo due to systematic physical and mental violence inflicted by her husband throughout their 30 years of marriage. Despite the high number of women who are victims of domestic violence, Kosovo only has eight shelters and lacks a specialized organization that provides assistance to women after they leave shelters.

To escape the violence from her husband, R.S., a mother of eight children, was forced to seek refuge in a shelter.

“I tried to deal with it for the sake of my children, but I couldn’t bring myself to leave and abandon them. I endured and endured, but eventually, I became exhausted, both physically and mentally. My spirit was drained, and life became unbearable. Even when my son got married, my husband continued to cause problems and abuse me in front of my son and his wife.

However, even within the confines of the shelter, she doesn’t feel completely safe.

“For someone who has endured years of abuse, like me, along with my children, it’s incredibly challenging to believe that life will ever improve. I attempted to work, but he never left me in peace, even at my workplace. Now, I’m faced with the daunting task of figuring out how to return to work, where to go, and how to rebuild my life,” she shares.

The lack of safe options and support services in Kosovo makes the situation even more difficult for victims of domestic violence like R.S.

The issue of women’s safety and support in shelters is evident, with many women having access to a place to sleep but lacking hope for a better life after leaving the shelters.

Conversely, some progress has been made for women returning from the war. A state-sponsored program aims to empower them through training and self-employment opportunities. This initiative has resulted in 31 out of 32 women receiving social assistance.

Despite the efforts to address domestic violence, the statistics remain alarming, with over 2200 women becoming victims of family violence in the past year. Sadly, only a few of these victims sought refuge in shelters, as they could not endure living with their abusers any longer. Several cities in Kosovo, including Prishtina, Prizren, Peja, Gjilan, Ferizaj, Gjakova, Mitrovica, and Novoberda, have centers that receive and care for victims.

However, the Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN) emphasizes that it is crucial to provide ongoing support and treatment for women even after they leave the shelters. This ensures a better chance of recovery and successful reintegration into society after enduring such traumatic experiences.

According to Adelina Berisha from the Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN), some women require ongoing treatments to stabilize emotionally and overcome the traumas they have experienced.

The rehabilitation and reintegration phase for survivors of gender-based violence is a critical but often overlooked aspect within the Kosovo system. While shelters play a crucial role in providing a safe space and empowering women while they are in the shelters, there are very few organizations that offer support during the integration and reintegration phase once they leave the shelters. As a result, this phase remains sensitive and challenging for the survivors.

Berisha mentioned that KALLXO.com, a media outlet, sheds light on the challenges that victims may face after leaving the shelter. These challenges can be numerous and varied, making it essential to have continued support and assistance to help survivors rebuild their lives and regain their independence after experiencing such traumatic situations.

“Women are often forced to return to the family where they experienced violence due to the difficulties they have encountered, or they are forced to give up their own children and return to their parents’ house. In such cases, the parents may refuse to accept the husband’s children, considering them not part of the bloodline due to the prevailing patriarchal mentality, which is very challenging,” she said.

It is essential to have treatments available for women after they leave shelters, but the necessity for such treatments varies depending on individual cases. In some instances, women promptly report the violence they experience and choose to leave the abusive relationship. For these women, it becomes a fresh start in their lives, and they bravely take control of their destinies and move forward,” she adds.

Berisha emphasizes that while an NGO can serve as an advisor for a woman, according to her, the state should think about ways to make women’s lives easier after they leave the shelter.


“Well, there are women who need this initiative to gain emotional stability and overcome all the trauma they experienced. It all depends on the needs of the women, but apart from being a necessity, it is also a legal requirement from the Istanbul Convention that each state must create mechanisms for the last phase of rehabilitation and reintegration for victims of gender-based violence. This need is supported by the legal framework and other studies, which makes it crucial to implement after they report the violence,” said Berisha.

The role of Social Work Centers and Shelters

Each municipality has a center for social work. They offer services to people who have experienced domestic violence and social services such as protection, rehabilitation, and integration of victims into society.

Kumrije Bytyqi, the director of the Social Work Center in Prizren, told KALLXO.com that at the local level, they do not have a specialized NGO for the treatment of victims after leaving the shelters, but also raised the lack of focus from NGOs in cases and programs of those who abuse the victims.

Bytyqi thotë se varësisht nga rasti pas daljes nga strehimorja menaxheri i rastit ofron sesione këshilluese individuale, familjare, mbikëqyrje të rastit sipas nevojave të viktimës.

Bytyqi says that depending on the case, the case manger offers those after leaving the shelter family counseling sessions and case supervision according to the needs of the victim.

“… collaborates with schools, refers the case to social services, social housing, professional skills, health and other services depending on the needs of the case and the family. If the court has imposed the measure of psycho-social treatment of the perpetrator of domestic violence, the social work centers adhere to the request that the court supervises the case and reports based on the court’s decision” – she expressed.

On the other hand, Kosovo has only eight shelters, in: Ferizaj, Gjakovë, Gjilan, Novobërde, Pejë, Prizren, Prishtina and South Mitrovica. Shelters provide housing services for women and children who have experienced domestic violence.

The referral to a shelter is usually made by the social service center, but it can also be made by the police or other institutions, at the request of the victim; even people who have experienced violence can self-refer.

These shelters operate within the local Non-Governmental Organizations.

They offer victims a temporary and safe place to live in case they are at risk of domestic violence. It is also their duty to help the victims during the process of recovering from domestic violence, including psychological and physical care, rehabilitation and reintegration into society. Most shelters also offer legal aid. All services at the shelter are provided free of charge.

On average, shelters can accommodate 15 people (including children), but most also offer extra beds for emergency situations.

The maximum length of stay is six months; however, if they are not secure and the victim has no other place to go, they may be transferred to another shelter, or remain in the same shelter beyond the six-month period based on a prior agreement with the Ministry of Internal Affairs and Communications.

Ardita Bala, director of the “Women’s Welfare Center” shelter in Peja, tells KALLXO.com that there are women who have different needs and that it is necessary to treat them even after leaving the shelter.

​​”It is important to treat them depending on the case. For example, we do not release them from the shelter without their consent and without helping to reintegrate them into society. For example, there are cases where after 6-7 months, they wanted to work, but they are missing protection and would continue to need support. For example, we have cases where we supply various aids like psychological sessions, health advice, free legal aid, so it is necessary to continue supporting women in every aspect” – she said.

The need to be treated

According to psychologist Mimoza Shahini, treatment after leaving the shelter is very necessary since many victims who were not helped after leaving the shelter have entered the cycle of violence again due to the inability to integrate into the social environment, for many reasons, many of them return to the abusive environment and re-experience a violence.

Psychology says that traumatic experiences have effects for a long time and psychological support is necessary after the experience.

“Violence is not an action but a complex phenomenon which creates damages in different spheres that unbalance the physical, emotional, social and economic integrity of the person faced with it. It is important that the explanation of these influences takes into consideration the age, gender, culture, socio-economic status of the victim” – said the psychologist Shahini.

She says victims can experience post-traumatic stress (PTSD), depression, chronic anxiety, panic attacks, feelings of hopelessness, difficulty controlling emotions, loss of self-confidence and feelings of guilt.

According to her, these psychological consequences can affect the quality of life and create further difficulties.

“They can face the loss of jobs, loss of their position in the family, financial difficulties, and material damage. These economic consequences can create difficulties in meeting basic needs and increase poverty and inequality,” added Shahini.

She emphasizes that the treatment of victims of violence is a long and complex process that must include care, concern and mutual commitment from health care and social welfare professionals as well as justice institutions.

“Through the engagement of all actors involved in the treatment of survivors of violence, a safe environment should be created for them in order to create a sense of security. Medical care is necessary in cases of physical injuries or even health problems that the victims may have.”

“Psychological counseling and assistance serves to address the psychological consequences of violence. Individual counseling, group therapy, and stress management strategies can be part of treatment to help victims. In the framework of supporting the victims, it is necessary to provide legal assistance. Meanwhile, rehabilitation and preparation for the future serve to recover and integrate them into society” – she emphasized.

Psychology says that the duration of treatment is individually based and is influenced by the dynamics of harmonization of the actors involved in rehabilitation, but in general it is related to three phases; crisis intervention; intervention in the shelter and interventions after leaving the shelter.

Also, she adds, many victims have a lack of support resources which can affect the victims’ inability to build a new life.

“Ongoing support can help victims of violence rebuild self-esteem and gain a sense of empowerment. It offers them the tools and resources to develop self-confidence and make independent decisions, ensuring integration in their community and overcoming social isolation,” said Shahini.

“I am not sure about the total number of organizations dealing with their treatment, but I think they are not enough to mitigate this issue” – she said.

Meanwhile, according to the sociologist, Labinot Kunushevci, victims of violence need rehabilitation depending on the type of violence experienced, the level of consequences and the skills that the victim possesses in rehabilitation.

The sociologist says that the victims deserve integration and social acceptance after a period of crisis, in the post-violence phase, and not to be overlooked or penalized, because this, according to him, will break the victim even more.

“Training, counseling, socio-psychological sessions help a lot. Treatments should always be viewed from the perspective of the circumstances that caused the violence. So the duration of the treatments depends on the specifics of the victims. The victims of violence in Kosovo are often overlooked by the institutions, leaving their fate and well-being to themselves and not to the the state or society. The most collective commitment of civil society would help the victims to return to normal life” – he emphasized.

What is in the states hands?

Since 2008, Kosovo has adopted several laws and policies to address and improve its institutional response to gender-based violence.

In 2019, the Criminal Code of Kosovo (KPK) was amended to include criminal offenses in accordance with the KS, including: domestic violence, sexual harassment and female genital mutilation.

KPK now recognizes domestic violence as physical, psychological, sexual or economic violence or mistreatment within a family relationship. The Law on Protection from Domestic Violence (LPDV) similarly defines these types of violence.

Meanwhile, in 2020 Kosovo began to take the first steps to amend the LPDV among other relevant laws, to better meet the identified needs and to harmonize them with the KS.

Kosovo also has a National Strategy for Protection from Domestic Violence.

The Department of Social Services and Child Protection within the Ministry of Justice is mandated to initiate, draft, monitor and inspect social and welfare programs for people in need of social services.

Also, this Department has the order of drafting standards, licensing of professionals and legal and non-governmental entities whose scope includes the protection of people in social need.

According to a response from the Ministry of Justice, based on the regular annual work plan of the Ministry on the support of NGO projects, whose scope is the treatment of groups in need of social and family services, we prepare and announce the public call for support of licensed NGO projects every year.

According to the Ministry of Justice, the financial support offered by the Ministry of Justice changes over the years and changes based on the needs of these shelters to implement their programs for the protection, shelter, rehabilitation and re-integration of victims.

“Based on article 12 and 20 of the Ministry of Finance Regulation criteria (no. 4 /2017), standards and procedures of public funding of NGOs states every year support is provided to projects of NGOs licensed for social and family services, NGOs that treat victims of domestic violence, victims of trafficking with human beings, maltreated, abused, neglected and neglected children, care for elderly people, care for disabled people and NGOs that treat people, children and adults with various syndromes” – Answered MD.

Furthermore, they said that NGOs and the Ministry of Justice have a cooperation agreement for several years now, while regarding the quality of service provision, NGOs are subject to the licensing process based on the conditions and criteria defined in the legal and by-laws.

They have also emphasized that regarding the quality of services provided by these entities, we estimate that the quality of providing social and family services should be improved every time, and they add that the MD as an institution of social policy drafting are in continuous efforts to improve and increase the quality of services for social need.

Handikos Mitrovica Holds Training: “Empowering Women and Girls with Disabilities: A Comprehensive Approach to Reproductive Health”

The member organization of the Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN), Handikos Mitrovica, is holding a three-day training as part of the project “Empowerment of Women and Girls with Disabilities: A Comprehensive Approach to Reproductive Health.” The training aims to inform and raise awareness among women and girls with disabilities about reproductive health, their rights within the health system, institutional mechanisms, and reporting abuse.

The psychologist and trainer, Elfije Kelmendi, has been providing information to women and girls about reproductive health. She emphasized that addressing this topic is crucial within this community, as it is still considered a taboo subject.

“It is an essential topic for women and girls, especially those with disabilities, as it remains a taboo subject. Women and girls lack sufficient information about this topic and face discrimination within their families when it comes to marriage and starting a family. We have specific cases where families deny them the opportunity to marry or have children solely because of their disability,” stated Kelmendi.

Throughout this training, women and girls with disabilities have gained awareness about various aspects, including the importance of regular gynecological check-ups. Thanks to the conducted trainings, they have also acquired knowledge on protecting themselves against sexually transmitted infections and understanding where to seek assistance for gynecological issues. This topic continues to be taboo among women and girls with disabilities.

The training also includes providing information to young girls with disabilities on how to navigate the challenges of adolescence and protect themselves from early pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections.

Merita Voca, a participant in the training, shared her personal experience and the benefits she gained regarding reproductive health. “Even though I have attended previous trainings, I found this training to be beneficial. There is always room for learning. Reproductive health continues to be a taboo topic among women and girls with disabilities. In the past, they were hesitant to visit gynecologists as a first step. However, with the training conducted over the years, I believe that the mindset of young girls, in particular, has changed,” she expressed.

Handikos Kosova conducted this training as a beneficiary of the grant from the 18th Round of the Kosovo Women’s Fund, through the initiative of the KWN “Further Advancing Women’s Rights in Kosovo II,” which is financed the Austrian Development Agency (ADA), with co-financing from the Swedish International Development Cooperation Agency (Sida).

Fatime Llugiqi: The Actress Who Radiated Positivity, Empowered, and Motivated Young Girls Towards Acting

Fatime Llugiqi was wise, loving, and positive, and these qualities shone through her performances on stage. As a theater and film actress, she not only made significant contributions to the field but also dedicated herself to supporting young actresses, offering them love and guidance.

Kosovo actress Anisa Ismajli, fondly recalls her first meeting with Fatime many years ago when she embarked on her acting journey. The memory evokes deep emotions for Anisa as she reflects on the impact Fatime had on her career.

“She has always had a deep love for young artists. I remember our first meeting vividly; she embraced me warmly. I aspire to carry on her legacy of nurturing love for young artists,” shared Ismajli.

In 1973, Fatime Llugiqi began her career at the National Theatre. Over the course of her active years on stage, spanning three decades, she took on an impressive repertoire of 37 roles in theater productions, as well as 22 roles in cinema and television films.

Initially, Llugiqi had aspirations of attending medical school. However, her path took a different turn as she ultimately decided to pursue her passion in the field of arts. In the early 1970s, she completed her education at the Pedagogical High School, where she joined the dramatic art group under the guidance of Faruk Begolli and Bekim Fehmiu.

During her time as a student, Llugiqi showcased her talent in various theatrical productions. One notable play she participated in was “Brazdat e Pavarura (Independent Furrows),” directed by Muharrem Qena. Impressed by her skills, Qena continued to involve her in his subsequent shows. Llugiqi went on to perform in several renowned plays, including “Gjenerali i ushtrisë së vdekur (The General of the Dead Army), “Revizori” (The Auditor), “Macbeth,” “Mosha e bardhë (the White Age), “The mayor of Tirana,” “Anna Karenina,” “Trungu Ilir, (Illyrian Trunk), “Hamlet,”etc. These performances stand as a testament to Llugiqi’s talent and will forever be remembered as significant milestones in her career.

Actor Adem Mikullovci has hailed Llugiqi as the most suitable actress for various roles. He collaborated with her on six episodes of the series “Man with Three Wives.” Mikullovci describes her as a wise and inquisitive actress.

Furthermore, actress Aurita Agushi fondly remembers Fatime as someone who made a significant impact on her life. Agushi expresses that no matter how hard she tries, words cannot fully capture the essence of who Fatime was to her. She describes her as gentle, composed, and brimming with warmth and love. Agushi cherishes the moments when Fatime would hold her close.

According to the actors, Fatime created an atmosphere of harmony within the theater team, thanks to her positivity and sensitivity. Her analytical nature, which involved breaking down characters and conducting historical research, guided her creativity, resulting in vivid and memorable portrayals.

Fatime Llugiqi was born in 1951 and passed away in 2019.

KWN Stands with Flutura Kusari, Advocating for Media Freedom

Concerned by recent comments directed at Flutura Kusari, a media rights lawyer and human rights activist, we at the Kosovo Women’s Network condemn the language used against her and express our full support for Flutura and every woman who has the courage to be active in the public sphere and become the voice of the citizens.

Ms. Kusari advocates for freedom of expression and the media, as well as for the protection of journalists in Kosovo, Albania, and throughout Europe. As a senior legal advisor at the European Center for Press and Media Freedom (ECPMF) in Leipzig, she leads the legal aid program that has supported hundreds of journalists in different countries. She also serves as an expert in the European Commission and the Council of Europe, and closely cooperates with well-known international organizations promoting media freedom.

Ms. Kusari initiated the Journalists in Residence program, through which she brought dozens of journalists from Ukraine and Afghanistan to Kosovo in cooperation with the Kosovar and German governments and the Association of Kosovo Journalists. She works closely with journalists in Kosovo and constantly advocates for their safety.

The Kosovo Women’s Network appreciates her courage, professionalism, and dedication in the promotion and protection of human rights.

Meanwhile, we call on public figures to use the platform provided to them to promote and empower women, rather than discouraging them with sexist comments simply because they disagree with their opinions.

Women are an integral part of public discourse, and they should feel safe and protected in order to contribute to the development of a democratic and equal society.

KWN: An Address for International Students to Learn about Gender Equality in Kosovo

Within a few days, the Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN) has held two meetings with students from the Netherlands and the USA to inform them about the work of KWN for more than two decades.

In both meetings, Adelina Berisha, Manager of the Program for Addressing Gender-Based Violence at KWN, informed dozens of students from the University College of Amsterdam and several students from the USA studying humanitarian law in Copenhagen about the history of the women’s rights movement, starting from its early beginnings of women’s activism, as well as the history of KWN since its establishment as an informal network in 1996.

Furthermore, Berisha informed the participants that the Network collaboratively designs a four-year strategy with member organizations and implements programs based on it. During this period, KWN has four programs, which Berisha informed the participants about. These programs are:

  • Improving gender equality through the rule of law.
  • Life without gender-based violence.
  • Economic empowerment of women.
  • Education that transforms gender norms.

Berisha also informed the students about the ongoing advocacy efforts of KWN and its member organizations at both the local and central levels. Their advocacy aims to promote changes that advance gender equality in Kosovo and protect and improve the rights of girls and women, regardless of ethnicity, sexual orientation, ability, religion, etc.

The students were impressed with the work of KWN, which has become the primary point of contact for girls and women seeking help in cases where their rights are violated, whether it be to stop gender-based violence, address workplace discrimination, or other issues.

By organizing such meetings and exchanging valuable knowledge, KWN contributes to fostering a deeper understanding of gender-based violence and the importance of women’s rights among the various groups of students who regularly visit KWN.

Melihate Ajeti and Her Triumph on the Stage and in the Emancipation of Women

Melihate Ajeti, a 16-year-old actress, was conquering the theater scene in the 1950s. She embarked on her career alongside Katarina Josip, Leze Qena, Naxhije Deva, and other prominent figures of the time. Meli, as she was called by relatives and friends was one of the pioneering women who dared to pursue their dreams of becoming actresses during a challenging era. Despite facing prejudice, she managed to earn respect for her talent in acting and the performing arts.

She was one of the few actresses who received all the awards and honors bestowed during that time in the former Yugoslavia, thereby establishing and validating not only her presence on stage but also her exceptional national artistic prowess.

Meli was hailed as the queen of the Albanian stage, personified beauty, and exceptional acting talent, which she showcased in both theater and film throughout her remarkable 60-year career.

She received the highest award in Kosovo for her portrayal of Margaret Goties. Antigona Qena-Kaçaniku, a journalist and musician who is the daughter of the actress, emphasizes her mother’s extraordinary creativity and highlights that her artistic accomplishments were not only met with enthusiastic applause from the adoring public, but also with numerous accolades both domestically and internationally.

Qena-Kaçaniku expresses confidence that history and time will eventually recognize and honor the nation’s true artistic pioneers. Known as the prima donna of the Albanian stage, Meli is particularly renowned for her portrayal of heroic characters. Over her five-decade artistic career, she has left an indelible mark through her performances in theater, film, television dramas.

Meli completed her secondary education in Prishtina, and then continued her studies at the acting school in the same city. She later pursued specialization in Paris at the Comédie-Française.

She married the late director, singer and actor Muharrem Qena.

“On September 17, 1953, the sound of music filled our village as Meli became a bride, although her father, Shaban Ajeti, was absent to accompany his daughter,” writes Sanije Gashi in a book that also features the prima donna of Kosovo theater.

The couple’s only child is their daughter, Antigona Qena Kaçaniku. She describes her mother as a woman of dignity, sensitivity, and immense pride, who found solace in her solitude, often immersed in books and notebooks. She diligently filled her pages with writings, leaving behind over 160 pages with the belief that they would one day be published. Following her passing, her daughter published a monograph about Melihate Ajeti on the occasion of her 85th birth anniversary.

“The book unravels the story of a melancholic girl who, before her 16th birthday, entered the Kosovo Theater and played more than 180 roles, predominantly leading ones. Meli’s life was as beautiful as it was painful, and my childhood mirrored the same,” reflects Antigona Qena.

She shares personal recollections, reflecting on her life following her parents’ separation. In the memories of her colleagues, Meli remains irreplaceable even to this day. In the 1973’s newspaper “Rilindja,” the art critic Vehap Shita noted that “Ajeti was destined for tragic roles, which she portrayed with a combination of lyrical emotions, pride, and dignity. Her attitude and speech exuded clarity and a sharp vision, embracing both harsh expression and subtle, sensitive, and lyrical nuances.”

In her final interview with “Teuta” magazine in 2004, Meli imparted a valuable message, expressing hope for a brighter and more prosperous future for humanity in all fields. She yearned to witness the prosperity and joy of her people alongside her grandchildren.

On June 12, 2012, on the occasion of Freedom Day in the Republic of Kosovo, the President at the time, Atifete Jahjaga, decided to honor several national and international figures. Melihate Ajeti was awarded the prestigious “Presidential Medal of Merit” for her significant contributions to the field of art.

Melihate Ajeti, born in Pristina in 1935, left a profound legacy until her passing in 2005.

KWN Calls for Institutional Accountability in Failing to Protect Victims of Gender-Based Violence

Pristina, 17 June 2023

Yesterday, on June 16th, during the “Udhëve” program broadcasted on Radio Television of Kosovo, another case of institutional failure in addressing gender-based violence was brought to light. This particular incident involved an 11-year-old girl who was residing in a high-security shelter, the sole state shelter supervised by the Ministry of Internal Affairs. The Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN) expresses profound concern regarding this institutional failure to protect victims of gender-based violence within the shelter’s premises. The fact that an 11-year-old girl experienced a violation while being housed in a high-security shelter is a clear manifestation of institutional negligence and failure. Not only does this institution fail to provide adequate rehabilitation for victims of gender-based violence, but it also further burdens them with criminalization and retraumatization.

While the 11-year-old girl was raped by five different individuals in Arbëria Park, she was sent to the shelter for rehabilitation. However, during her stay at the shelter, when she was supposed to receive the necessary assistance and support to overcome the trauma of violence, she was subjected to yet another rape within the very institution that was meant to help her heal. Additionally, another girl who was also residing in the shelter for the purpose of rehabilitation is now facing charges for a violent crime. These distressing events vividly highlight the institutional failure to ensure the complete safety and security of gender-based violence victims.

KWN calls on the Ministry of Internal Affairs to immediately dismiss the individuals responsible for the high-security shelter and ensure that they face the consequences for the criminal act that occurred within their institution. Additionally, KWN calls on the Prosecutor’s Office to conduct a thorough investigation into the case and ensure that the victim receives the necessary services. It is crucial that justice is fully served, and all those responsible for this criminal act are held accountable under the law. KWN also emphasizes the need for a victim-centered approach in working with the minor, ensuring that she receives proper and essential assistance.

KWN remains committed to cooperation and providing assistance to victims of gender-based violence through free legal counseling and referrals to relevant institutions. If you require free legal assistance for cases of gender-based violence or know someone who does, please contact us at the following number: 038 245 850.

KWN Highlights the Significance of Integrating a Gender Perspective into the DG NEAR Baseline Assessment Report Guidelines

For two consecutive days (June 1-2), the Kosovo Women’s Network (KWN) participated in the EU Civil Society Forum for the Western Balkans and Turkey 2023. This event brought together over 150 participants, including representatives from civil society, EU officials, and government authorities, serving as a crucial platform for knowledge sharing and the development of strategies to promote civil society growth in the region.

One of the highlights of the 2023 Forum was the launch of the DG NEAR Guidelines for EU Support to Civil Society 2021-2027 Baseline Assessment Report. This vital document offers a detailed analysis of the state of civil society in the region, based on the 59 indicators outlined in the Guidelines.

Etleva Malushaj, a program officer at KWN, emphasized the importance of including a gender perspective in such reports while analyzing the findings of the baseline assessment report. She also requested that the methodology section should provide more demographic data for each country.

Furthermore, Malushaj highlighted the significance of breaking down the presented data by the type of participation of organizations in the assessment, as well as by gender, ethnicity, and ability. This breakdown would allow organizations working for women’s rights to further analyze the situation in the country.

The forum proceeded with thematic sessions, providing participants with an opportunity to exchange knowledge, practices, and ideas from their respective countries.